Our Experience Working With a Marriage Therapist - Tom & Ariana Sylvester

Our Experience Working With a Marriage Therapist

Oct 15, 2018 | Couples Series, Lifestyle Design, Optimization, Podcast | 0 comments

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Episode Brief Description

Can a marriage counselor really help improve your marriage?  In this episode, we open up and share our vulnerable experiences from seeing a marriage therapist

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Key Insights & Timestamps

  • [00:29] – Welcome
  • [02:47] – The “hush hush” topic no one ever wants to talk about
  • [04:50] – Putting the work in
  • [06:11] – Giving yourself the tools to create a rock solid relationship
    • Sometimes 3rd party clarity is key
  • [08:45] – Prioritizing
  • [12:58] – Consistency
  • [15:09] – Self work
  • [19:00] – Navigating the fear of failure
  • [22:30] – This process will always be harder before its easier, but it is worth it
  • [24:40] – Learning to properly communicate
  • [27:36] – Finding the right fit
  • [30:01] – Aligning on what you want to achieve
  • [32:05] – Key Takeaways
    • Ariana – Don’t wait until you’re in trouble, start now
    • Tom – Focus on yourself 1st
  • [36:38] – Tom’s Bookshelf

Action Steps

Ariana’s Homework

  • Be proactive. Start now, before your realtioship is in trouble

Tom’s Homework

  • Focus on yourself first. Most of this work comes back to you.

Tom’s Bookshelf

The 7 Principles of Making

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Key Insights
  • Create a solid relationship be being proactive and seeking the help you need BEFORE you need it
  • Set expectations and hold yourself accountable to do the work
  • Learn how to commuincate properly

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